He's Just Not That Into You

I saw the movie and thought it was horrible. But maybe I didn't give it a chance b/c I saw it on an ill-fated evening of "Girl's Night Out." I hate the concept. I don't hang out with many girls because I'm awkward at it. I'm not a very good "Girl" member of "Girl's Night Out." I'm not very girly. I'm generally pretty vulgar and crude...that's why I live the life of a gay man. My gays get me. We enjoy every moment of our time together. But the night I went to see this movie in theaters (a couple of years ago...) I was trying to be more Girls Night appropriate. I was invited by a high school friend and we met up with some of her girlfriends. They were horrendous. Stereotypical slutty nags who just don't Get It.

But I digress.

My dearest friend Terra Cotta Sugarbaker recommended that I read He's Just Not That Into You. I balked. But then I found it on amazon.com for $8 so I succumbed. It came in the mail yesterday--and after my day of BBM, I was in the mood to zone out on a book. And I ended up reading it in its entirety. And it IS amazing advice. Thanks TCS!

If he wants to talk to me, he'll call. If he wants to go out with me, he'll ask.

I've been chasing men my whole life and the gig is officially UP. I'm done. Now to just continue living my life as a gay man until a straight man decides to claim me as his own.

Now: sleep. No work for either job tomorrow. Glorious. Only thing on the docket: me at a local pizza place for the filming of our 4th video in a webseries related to HIV and white gay men. TCS, you're brilliant as our director and I'm looking forward to our "shoot"!

I guess I don't have a date for tomorrow anymore (as I haven't heard from BBM). Which is fine...I'll sleep in and eat garlic bread for lunch.